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根据下列材料，回答题Mistakes are the things that：nobody wants，but we still make mistakes at any age．Some mistakes we make are about money．Some are about work or jobs．But most mistakes are about people． “Did Jerry really care when I broke up with Helen?’，“When I got that great job，did Jim reallv feel good about it as a friend?Or did he envy my luck?’’“And why didn’t Andy pick up that l was friendly just because l had a car?”When we look back，doubts like these caIl make us feel bad．Butwhen we look back，it’S too late．
Why do We go wrong about our friends or our enemies?Sometimes what people say hides their real meaning.We need to listen and think for some time．And if we don’t really listen we miss the feeling behind the words．Suppose someone tells you，“You’re a lucky d09’’that，s being fdendly． But“lucky d09”?There’s a bit of envy in those words．Maybe he doesn't see ithimself．But bringing in the“d09”bit puts you down a little．What he may be saying is that he doesn't thinkyou de serve your luck．
“Just thillk of all the things you have to be thankful for’’is another noise that says onethingan meansanother·It could nlean that the speaker is trying to get you to see your problem as part of your life as a whole·But is he?Wrapped up in this phrase is the thought that your problem isn，timportant.telling youtothinkofthe starving people in the world when you haven’t got a date for Saturday night．
How can you tell the real meaning behind someone’s words?One way is to take a good look at the person talking·Do his words fit the way he looks?Does what he says agree with the tone of Voice?His posture?The look in his eyes?Stop and think．The minute you spend thinking about me real meaning of what people say to you may save another mistake．
This passage is mainly about______. A．how to interpret what people say
B．what to do when you listen to others talking
C．how to avoid mistakes when you communicate with people
D．why we go wrong with people sometimes
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